You are your own CEO
This blog post is a little different to the usual fitness posts because I want to touch on the mental side of things not just the physical..
In life you will have challenges, heart breaks, set backs, negative people trying to bring you down ect.. These things are part of life unfortunately, what you choose to do and how you choose to perceive whats in front of you is completely up to you..
I find you usually have two options.. you can
1. Play the victim and the why me card..
You will see this a lot with people kicking up a stink with why me... this isnt fair... bad things happen to good people.. blaming god... or they just simply refuse to have an responsibility for they actions and i hate this place or i need to get out of here is the usual language of the poor me pitty paraders
You will find as the years go by you can almost guarantee they will still be in the same spot. A negative mind leaves no room for growth..
OR
2. You can look at things with a positive mind and have faith that you might not know lives lesson straight away but you will eventually and everything will be ok..
I have met some very kind hearted and beautiful people that really good enjoy life and walk around with a smile and positive glow and they have all faced some incredible heart breaks and losses... When you have a positive mind you open yourself up to see how beautiful the world and people can truly be and how lucky we are. Life will test you and put things in your path and its up to you how you choose to take it..
You always have choices and you are always in control of your life and its completely up to you if you want to live in negative darkness or a bright and positive life :)
If you choose to be positive they illuminate all the negative and if you choose to be negative then please leave the positive people alone
So true ... There is always a choice.... Bad experiences and painful moments in your life can only be regarded as a complete catastrophic failure if you do not learn something from it... Hardships shape us.... Night is always darkest just before the dawn!!!... Great blog ... Love it...!!! 11:11
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